Eghersis
is a transliteration of the Greek word, εγερσις, which has the meaning of being roused to life. Thus, it is my hope that what you find on this blog will empower, arouse, stimulate, excite, and animate your life--your soul, your spirit--the wholeness of who you are.


Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Love and Relationships


Today, I am seriously thinking about yesterday's Lenten reading by Henri Nouwen in From Fear to Love. I am posting it here in full. It will be staying with me for awhile.

"All our struggles in relationships are connected with what I like to call the relationship between the 'first love' and the 'second love.' The first love is from God, who loved us before we were born. The second love is from our parents, brothers, sisters, and friends, and it is only a reflection of that first love. Sometimes we expect from the second love what only the first love can give. Then we experience anguish. My personal struggle has always been that I expected a first love from someone who could only give a second love.

As soon as we demand a first love, an unconditional, total, self-giving love, from another human being, who is limited in ability to give and receive, we will be disappointed. Quite quickly we feel anguish and may even resort to violence because we demand from a person what that person cannot give. The other person has no choice but to back off, pull back, and perhaps feel hurt, angry or guilty."

1 comment:

SUNRISE SISTER said...

Wow for Henri - I am a fan of his and reading the quote you've given me today, I remember why.


Thanks.

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